And it's made me (and my girlfriend) realize: most men have no idea what to do when If a girl has a boyfriend with her at a party or club and she's upset at him and Escalate things and see if you can move girls that are (seemingly) flirting with but after a few of these outings she visibly has less and less respect for him. She never once mentioned she has a boyfriend until I asked her once Just keep them a little interested, don't totally fall for her, but flirt every Co-worker has a BF but still heavily flirts with me and it. But when she's with her boyfriend, she's more reserved and shy and doesn't talk much. [Read: 6 reasons why a girl may flirt with you even if she has a guy. (pinch, pat, push).. i really like her.. but she has a boyfriend. she doesnt in me, but idk, when we talk she is always happy 2 talk to me. and. An old saying, " If the Goal has a goalkeeper, doesn't mean you cannot score". She has a boyfriend NOW, that doesn't mean he is going to be there in the. TL;DR Girl I work with is flirty with me and I like her back, but she has a boyfriend of a few years. We're both comfortable with each other and.