Like most guys, you are probably reaching for even the smallest of signs that she still loves you. You are willing to grasp any possibility that your former girlfriend. Sneaky Signs Your Ex Still Loves You (Even If They Say They Don't) .. About à month ago me and my ex girlfriend broke up, we had a 2 year relationship. They're allowed to say whatever they want, and do whatever they want – but only they get to decide what it really means – and you don't get a say. So he'll pull.